Sunday, April 12, 2015

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How to make a good relationship with your team workers

Are you ready to be part of your dreamed company? We already know that we need a great spec to be contracted by a company, but actually not all the companies are looking for someone with an amazing spec; they look for people who can be melted naturally on their team. Because of this, to make a good relationship with your future team workers you need to learn from how to act, how to deal with a bad mood people, until how to overcome your mistakes.

I want to give you some tips about the proper way to act when you are with your team workers. First of all, you need a smiling face, it sounds really easy but it was the most difficult thing on my experience at working. The office is a stressful place, so even though you're a happy person it won't be easy to smile if you are stressed. But I don't mean that you have to smile like a Barbie all the day, what you need is to learn how to control your emotions. To control your emotions on a rough time, for basis you need patience before expressing your thoughts. After giving to you a minute of patience you would be able to calm down your emotions. Taking a cup of tea or taking some fresh air would help you to refresh your mind so you could keep working.

As we know there is all kind of people in this world and of course, there are a bad mood people. You have to remember that at the working place and especially in Korean society only the boss can be in a bad mood, it sounds very sad but that's the way it is. When I saw a bad mood employee, that person always had troubles with everyone. So if this kind of person makes you angry just try to avoid him or her, because discussing with those kinds of people won't bring you anything beneficial. Avoiding is the best way to deal with those types of characters but if you really can't avoid that person you can make that person on your side; this can be difficult but it could be another good way to deal with bad mood people.

Moreover, the best way to overcome our mistakes inside of a team is the acceptance. We learn from a child that we have to accept our mistakes, but at a work the acceptance has to be fast; it is because if you are afraid to be scolded by the boss for your mistake and you hide it or just wait to see what happens, later on the whole team will be scolded and they will hate you for a several time. So don't be afraid for anything because the time passes and the hard time will also pass. So first, just accept your mistakes; and after to be scolded by your boss they will explain to you how you can fix it, so you will be able to understand that problem better, on a result it will be beneficial for you. 

There are still many lessons to learn outside from the college, but it will be better if we know some of the steps before going through the rough society. And on my experience on jobs, dealing with people was the hardest work; so I've got these valuable lessons of making myself a smoother person, learning how to deal with angry people and to overcome my mistakes in the best way at a working place. I hope that this process could help for those who still don't have a job experience.

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  1. How to make a good relationship with your team workers
    Are you ready to be part of your dreamed company? We already know that we need a great spec to be contracted by a company, but actually not all the companies are looking for someone with an amazing spec; they look for people who can be melted naturally on their team. Because of this, to make a good relationship with your future team workers you have to learn from how to act, how to deal with a bad mood people, until how to overcome your mistakes.
    I want to give you some tips about the proper way to act when you are with your team workers. First of all, you need a smiling face, it sounds really easy but it was the most difficult thing on my experience at working. The office is a stressful place, so even you’re a happy person it won’t be easy to smile if you are stressed. But I don’t mean that you have to smile like a Barbie all the day, what you need is to learn how to control your emotions. So if you are stressed take a cup of tea and calm down yourself because no one will ask you every day if you are okay.
    As we know there is all kind of people in this world and of course, there are a bad mood people. You have to remember that in Korean society only the boss can be in a bad mood, it sounds awkward but that’s the way it is. When I saw a bad mood employee, that person always had problems with everyone. So if this kind of person makes you angry just avoid him or her, because you will not get anything if you discuss with that kind of people. Avoiding is the best way to deal with those types of characters. Or you can drink a cup of coffee and make him or her friend of yours; it can be another way to deal with those people.
    Moreover, the best way to overcome our mistakes inside of a team is the acceptance. We learn from a child that we have to accept our mistakes, but at a work the acceptance has to be fast because if you are afraid to be scolded by the boss for your mistake and you hide it, later on the whole team will be scolded, and they will hate you for a several time. So don’t be afraid for anything because the time passes and the hard time will also pass.
    There are still many lessons to learn outside from the college, but it will be better if we know some of the tips before going through the world. And on my experience on jobs, dealing with people was the hardest work, so I learned valuable lessons by making myself a smoother person, also learning how to deal with angry people and how to overcome my mistakes in the best way at a working place.

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